Friday, October 18, 2013
2 Weeks With My Guys
We have officially reached two weeks with our little guys! The two questions I get asked most are: How are they sleeping? and How do you do it? The first question is easy - most nights they are sleeping really well and we wake up between 1-4 times for bottles. It just depends on the night, when they ate last before bed and how they are feeling. Sometimes I feed one than the other which takes about 30-45 minutes start to finish including diaper changes. Sometimes we double bottle feed which takes about 25 minutes start to finish. They usually fall right back asleep after eating so I can too. Occasionally one (or both) needs an extra cuddle, but that's not a big deal generally.
How do I do it? One moment at a time. We have had some really great days of clockwork schedules where everything just meshed...and some days of tantrum craziness where things felt crazy overwhelming. And we just deal with it. One moment at a time. Truth be told as far as babies go, mine have all been really easy. They generally don't cry a lot and they eat well. Since we have those two things going for us, it makes it easier to enjoy them and easier to get things done. I can't complain.
The girls are adjusting well. Again, we have good days of helping with the brothers and days of "I just want you to play with ME and not the brothers", which I understand. There is a little mommy guilt when I can't make everyone happy and it does feel like I favor giving attention to the boys - mainly because they need it more...but that will soon start to come together. The girls are great about helping and we now have a permanent art and craft table set up so they entertain themselves a lot and are happy to do it.
Overall, I have great, easy kids and an amazing husband who is great with the kids and always willing to help. If either of those factors were gone and I was left to my own devices I'm pretty sure it'd be a completely different picture.
I am going to start working on my weight loss/toning pretty soon although I do realize it took 9 months to stretch this belly out and things aren't going to snap right back into place. I am 2-3 pounds from my pre-pregnancy weight, back in my regular jeans but my body is still a jiggly mess. (And I'm totally ok with saying that on the internet!) My goal is to get to a healthy weight but more so a healthy feel by Christmas so we'll see how that goes! I want to make healthy choices but I'm also not so concerned with it that I'm going to go crazy at this stage either :) This momma still needs her ice cream.
Happy two weeks boys!